Marry the Guy Who

This was sent to me by a friend some time ago. Credit for the writing was not cited. So this is by anonymous.

Will go on long walks with you. He will want to know who 
she is, why she is and how she does things. 
She will feel searched out, he will seek to understand her past, 
her past explains why she is the way she is. 
Her battles will become his battles, her joy his joy. 
A serious man has no time to pretend to be a man he is not; 
he wants her to know him for who he truly is. 
Because he sees her in his future, as his wife; 
he will not hesitate to correct her when she wrongs,
 confront her when she strays, 
direct her to opportunities or challenge her to be better. 
A man who is working on a stable future will not waste 
his wealth today just to please the woman. 
He will not take a loan to impress her or go into debt to win her. 
He would rather enjoy today with her within his limit  
as he invests in a better future. 
Will allow himself to be vulnerable to the woman to 
empower her to show him love. 
When he is lost, discouraged, down, in need of assistance,
 broke or hurting he will lean on her and confide in her. 
Her love will be the oasis he runs to. 
The more she looks at him the more he will look like a 
husband and father in waiting. He will handle 
her like his wife even though they are not yet married. 
Unfaithfulness will be unheard of; disrespecting her 
will not be an option. Because he wants her to have 
a stake in his future, he will seek her opinion before 
making a move. He will slowly fix himself in her friends 
and family circle. He wants to appear as the man 
making inroads to her heart, he will not hide from
 the people he could be interacting with a lot in the future.
 Know his friends, his siblings, 
where he hangs out, where he comes from. 
He will not make her feel she is the only one interested but 
will initiate conversations, ask her out and miss her greatly 
or feel bad if for one reason or another they can’t spend time. 
She will catch him staring at her with a look of awe, 
a warm look captured by her beauty and wanting 
that beauty all to him. “His face will have a sense of good
 mystery” will feel bad about letting her down, disappointing 
her, offending her or falling short. He knows he can’t be
 perfect but it hurts knowing she hurts even the slightest 
bit because of him. He will be quick to say sorry.  He knows 
the weight and honor of the words “I love you” 
When he says it he means it and will take 
responsibility for it every day till the end. 
This man will have a unique way of bringing out a
 side in her that other men can’t. As she sees a husband
 in him, she sees day by day a wife in herself 
He will treat her like his Queen 
She will be special to him. Period!



I am getting on in years and have officially entered the world of the elderly. These are the golden years? Ha ! LOL. Won’t you buy me a cup of coffee? In fact, why don’t you join me for a cup? I’d love to chat, but not too long,, I need to get back to writing and rewriting.



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